How I Lost Faith in Our Times

My generation has grown up in a world where appallingly unethical behavior is the corporate norm. It may be cynical to admit that we are not at all surprised when the issue of corporate corruption arises. We may instead pontificate upon the advantages and disadvantages of offshore banking in classic powerhouses like the Caymans or the Swiss banks versus somewhere more fun to say, like Antigua and Barbuda or St. Kitts and Nevis, though the decision may be based less on economic stability, or greater financial privacy, or how well, say, interest income can be hidden from tax authorities, and more on which remote island nation representative knows how to respond when you ask them, "Who ya gonna call?"

It is in light of this generational cynicism that I sadly have to say, with a wisp of disbelief still, that my faith in society has sunk even lower. Perhaps the example I am about to bring you is just another inevitable sign of the world's downward spiral; maybe it is my fault I never prepared myself for this day. But everyone must come of age, and innocence, as long as any shard of it exists, never lacks a nemesis.

When we were kids, there was something which we could always anticipate, no matter what was going on in the dark days in which we found ourselves. You see, in many fine childhood wonder establishments such as Chuck E Cheese's or Discovery Zone and sometimes even certain Toys "R" Us stores, one could almost always expect to find a candy machine that would let you play until you got candy. Back then, before we were sucked into the maelstrom of lost dreams and cups labeled "Half Empty" and abandoned toys and scraggly forgotten Christmas trees that is Growing Up In The Late Twentieth and Early Twenty-First Centuries, we were disappointed when we didn't get the good candy! There was always a plant, bait, and it'd be Skittles or a Milky Way and the rest would be small consolation prizes like plastic rings or Tootsie Rolls. (Which are wonderful, don't get me wrong, but these Tootsie Rolls usually weren't the plump, moist ones, there were the dry, fill-up-only-half-the-paper ones. Plus, next to a fun-size pack of Skittles, a scrawny little Tootsie Roll don't stand a chance, ya know?) If only we knew how good we had it then! But we were young, and we can't linger forever in the salad days.

Memories of those fine candy machines still floated through my mind from time to time. What a great way to show kids that giving them candy is more important than some Evil Corporation taking their hard-earned, parking-lot-or-couch-cushion found quarters! But everything changed last week.

The setting? ****d ******n in College Station, Texas. The cast? Myself, my roommate of all four years, and his 12 or 13 or something year old sister. (Who, by the way, was our not so convincing excuse for finding ourselves in the waiting line for laser tag.) The plot? Short, but you'll understand. I look to my right to see a candy machine with (you guessed it, the infernal bait!) a deliciously colorful fun-size pack of Skittles. I look away. I look back, a glance, meaning nothing by it, innocent! I look away. Now it's in my mind. I must have it. Without a word I leave my comrades, load my card up with a dollar (a whole freaking dollar!) and swipe it in the machine. Not taking too much time to aim, I send the dinosaur jaw grasper claw down into the candy sea, and am not too dismayed when he is unable to grasp anything in his big clumsy plastic jaws; I have many more tries.

O! How wrong was I? He dropped an imaginary Sorry, Play Again into that candy chute and I watched in disbelief as the game reset. 50 cents blown, and no Skittles to show for it. Every vestige of that childhood innocence, sold for two quarters.

I was livid. I decided to go to the professional. I called the 12 or 13 or something year old little sister of my roommate over and solemnly explained to her the situation. -I have one more try left on this card, I told her. -I need those Skittles.

Needless to say, those big stupid plastic jaws were a conspiracy anyway; of course, the Powers That Be would design them so that THEY COULD NOT PICK UP ANYTHING!!! She tried, but the challenge was too much for even that seasoned candy machine pro.

Not to be deterred, I went to the candy game my jaded, cynical, desensitized generation knows well how to play, a place where my dollar will NEVER come away empty handed, where I ALWAYS leave victorious, Skittles in hand!! It unleashed my Skittles, which by this point I had to have or I would EXPLODE, from their spirally, metal little prison and plopped them down unceremoniously in the hatch. I left the vending machine and rejoined my companions and we played a pleasant little game of putt putt.

A Guilty "How's it been?" Phone Call

I have a habit of not being very good at staying in touch, and this always leads to these guilty "Heyyyy... so how's it been?" phone calls. That's how I feel about this blog; I see the link to it and I always feel this tug, like -Oh, man, Alex, you should really go give your old blog a visit. Give it a ring. See how it's all going. And so here I am, feeling guilty, and Mr. Blog is like, -Hey. Haven't see you around in awhile. It's been really, really lonely. When I am abandoned by both my author and lone reader all at once, it kinda hurts.

I'm sorry, Mr. Blog. I'm back.

So, the entree on the menu today is Shanghai. I'll be heading over there in a month. That'll give me some material to talk to you about, I'm sure. That's all it's been. Just nothing much going on over here on my end. I promise. I'd tell you if anything exciting was happening. This summer has mostly rotated around working in Houston, missing the girlfriend and dealing with related issues, and waiting till Shanghai. See? Nothing much to tell you about, that you'd be interested in, at least. I've been learning Chinese! That's fun, right? And German! I'm learning German partly because it's so much easier, and because I like it, but mostly because I want to try and spite Chinese because that language is so freaking difficult, and German is so much easier, and that's what Chinese gets for being so hard. And I'll run a half marathon in August! Ah, and the guys of the family just went on a big West Texas roadtrip! See, that's cool, right?

There have been some grand conversations this summer. There are large goodbyes that loom. I'll only be gone till Christmas, but in my mind... I'm leaving for a much longer time than that. We'll see, right? I've been in a mood where I'd love if there were some sort of melodramatic soundtrack playing in the background when I drive around. Something like A Long December by Counting Crows, or something more melancholy like We Did It When We Were Young by the Gaslight Anthem.

Does God Cheer at the End of Our Rom-Coms?

One of my very close friends and I talked almost until the sun came up a couple of days ago. He told me of a girl he felt he had fallen for on a mission trip he went on over the winter break. We talked about the possibility of him going back to see her, about how his church would be taking a mission trip in the summer, and how he would think about going on it, but that he didn't want her to be the focus if he does end up going. Of course on the mission trip I agree that God should be the focus, no doubt about that.

At the same time, however, I couldn't help but imagine our Father looking down at us and (should He choose to give my chum the opportunity) cheering him on and rooting for him to fly over there and throw caution to the wind and win his newfound young love. And why not? Why wouldn't God root for love stories, cheer for the underdog, support us running against all odds, ready to break through walls, scouring entire cities at night, in an impossible attempt to find our co-star in the cheesy rom-com/action-dramedy-with-a-heart-of-gold-and-killer-ending about our life? Did he not pull the ultimate rescuing-the-beloved-bride move when he came to get us? He makes Leia's rescue in the Death Star look less exciting than a boyfriend picking up his girl from work. (Maybe she worked overtime and it's kinda late, but still.)

I think God comes off as too serious sometimes, too by the book, too responsible, too overbearing. I think He is serious and He wants us to live responsibly, of course, but I think He is also about some other things, things that may perhaps seem less conventional. Let's face it; this is the same God who had His people follow pillars of cloud and fire in the desert and listen to bushes that were on fire, who unashamedly nestled a book about sex right in the middle of the Bible, who had Samuel come back from the dead as a spirit to tell Saul some bad news (1 Sam 28), who had Abram just go from his home with no idea or plan or anything to believe on but God's promise, who told Joseph to pick up and move Mary and Jesus to Egypt through nothing more than a dream, and countless other random, obscure and totally unconventional things (see + below). I'm sure you can think of some other great examples. The greatest track of all on God's Greatest Hits is of course the masterpiece of all masterpieces, the symphony of symphonies, the cornerstone and completion of all the tracks in His extensive library, about how this same Father, loving the unlovable and the prodigal and the whore, wrapped Himself in human skin to redeem the undeserving, eating and drinking and living with us, then dying and rising for us, telling us to go to every corner of the planet simply to tell everyone about Him and love them like He loved us, unconditionally and till never, ever do we part.

Jon Acuff posted on his blog Stuff Christians Like about taking God seriously. He mentions that his personal tendency has been to take God very seriously, to see Him much more in that light, and seeing Him as the joyful One who sings over our our souls is maybe a bit more difficult for him.

It's the opposite for me. I rarely, if ever, think of the serious side of God before I see His joyful side. He is my kind, loving, and encouraging Father before He is my Master, worthy of my complete service and utter devotion. Obviously He is both; I just lack on the reverence aspect sometimes, which I think is extremely important. To use an (extremely limited and potentially dangerous but hopefully somewhat illuminating) analogy, it might be like if you were best friends with a rock star, but you are such good friends you forget how famous they are sometimes. Or if your best friend's dad is the king of some country, and you go to his palace all the time, and hang out with him and watch football and he makes you and your friend pancakes one weekend a month, you tend to forget he is king of so-and-so country and he is the one who governs and keeps everyone safe and makes everything run smoothly and puts people in jail there, who runs that world. For good measure we'll say he wrote the constitution too. He's a big deal. Anyway, as illuminated in the first few paragraphs, I tend to feel like He would support actions and stories of mine or my friends that may seem foolish or frivolous or foolhardy. His call to us is to make His glory known in all ends of the planet, in every nation, and sometimes foolish and frivolous and foolhardy things are exactly how He plans to spread His love through us. I don't doubt that He authors individual love stories as well, nor do I doubt that He cheers along as one of His bumbling sons rushes off into the sunset to win the girl of his dreams, to find the wife of his youth. (Girls, unfortunately, inherently know, and guys will admit as soon as they look at their wives, that there's divine intervention in there somewhere!)

Ben Stuart of Breakaway said that even how we view Jesus is a gift from God. I guess it's true for the whole Trinity, and none of us see Jesus or the Father or the Spirit perfectly. Not yet at least. He is both to be loved and revered, admired and respected, our Father to watch the game with and our Master to whom we give our lives. He never changes, it's just that none of us can wrap our peanut brains around the whole concept of Him right now. Perhaps, someday, God and us will laugh together about our intellectual ineptitude, about how we are barely more perceptive or intelligent than a jar of applesauce when it comes to fully understanding Him and His ways. Given the fact that He'll always be a million billion light-years sharper than us, however, He might be the only one that really gets the joke...

+On the other hand, He is also the same God who told us to live a quiet life, mind our own business, and to work with our hands (1 Thes 4) and that the best thing a person can do is eat, drink, and find satisfaction in their toil (Eccl 2), among other quiet and conventional advice... these verses are best for when we start to like sizzle and loud, empty emotion over steak and solid worship. (see ++)

++When I said "steak and worship" did you get hungry? I did. Steak at worship is a good idea. When you eat steak isn't it a pretty worshipful experience anyway? I know the entire time I eat a succulent rib-eye there's a constant stream of "Thank You"'s running under my breath...